Wednesday, 28 June 2017

Pregnancy - 22 week update

How far along?  22 weeks


How big is baby?  The size of an eggplant (or an American guinea pig) - around 27.8 cm and 430 g!

Total weight gain/loss?  I'm 57.6 kg so a whole pound on this week, which is in line with the guidelines.  I've never been so happy to see the weight on the scale going up.  Hopefully within another couple of weeks I'll have reached my starting weight.

Waist?  30.5 inches, no change this week.  Apparently my uterus should now be about an inch above my belly button but I'm not convinced.

Stretchmarks?  No new ones :)

Maternity clothes?  Still no, although I am definitely getting ready for some and I've already filled the new, larger bras I bought a couple of weeks ago so if it keeps up they won't last long!

Sleep?  It's been a little better this week, although last night I developed restless legs.  I've suffered on and off with restless legs for years so I definitely expected them to show up again in pregnancy.  They only bothered me for about 15-20 minutes so hopefully that's as bad as it gets!

Best moment this week?  Feeling more and more movements.

Movement?  There's been a lot more this week, I notice Pip wriggling and kicking when I'm sat at my desk at work or chilling out in an evening.  There have even been a few quite strong kicks that may have been able to be felt from the outside - now it's just a case of waiting for them to happen when ALS is around.

Food cravings?  Chocolate, it's getting ridiculous.  I'm trying to have a little bit but not overindulge and then I'm just sat that I can't have more - I'm very wary of giving myself gestational diabetes though so I'm just gonna have to accept it and hope I start craving something more useful soon. 

Food aversions?  Nothing.

Gender?   Still no idea really.

Labour signs?  Definitely not.

Pregnancy symptoms?  Heartburn - to the point where I made ALS go to the pharmacy and ask what was safe for me to take, then since he bought it I've not had it bad enough to take anything.  My sciatica seems to have flared up and restless legs have made an appearance.  This is all so overshadowed by the little bundle of love wriggling around inside me though!  

Belly button in or out?  In.

What I miss?  Binging on chocolate without feeling guilty!  If I eat too much and make myself feel sick or end up putting on weight, it's not normally a problem.  But now I'm eating for Pip too so I'm trying to eat more healthy foods and less snacks which is proving hard work this week.

What I am looking forward to?  Getting our garden finished!  With some help from my dad, we got the base built for the shed at the weekend and we're going to get a shed ordered today.  Once that's done it'll just be a matter of laying the turf and we're pretty much set!

Upcoming appointments/scans?  I have an appointment with the Anaesthetist on 4th July (next Tuesday).  I'm back at the midwife on 19th July and my next growth scan is 14th August.  

Weekly wisdom?  Everyone will have an opinion - ignore them.  I'm enjoying my pregnancy a hell of a lot more since I started ignoring people.  I've lost count of how many people have told me I'm too small, asked me if I'm sure I'm pregnant or told me they don't think there's anything there.  It really, really bothered me in the beginning but now I just smile politely, inform them there's definitely a baby in there and carry on about my day.

Milestones?  Feeling regular movements every day.

Bump picture: 

It's coming along nicely although there's still a definite indent above my belly button, the top part hasn't really "popped" yet - I keep seeing people where their stomach is one smooth curve from bra downwards so I'm hoping that'll happen soon so it looks like a bump, rather than just looking like I ate too much!

Wednesday, 21 June 2017

Pregnancy - 21 week update

How far along?  21 weeks


How big is baby?  The size of a cantaloupe (or a least weasel) - around 26.7 cm and 360 g!

Total weight gain/loss?  I'm 56.9 kg so the same as last week.  However, for the first time in a few weeks I'm not worrying about it because little Pip is growing just fine and the sonographer assured me I don't need to be concerned.

Waist?  30.5 inches so a teeny increase.

Stretchmarks?  No new ones :)

Maternity clothes?  Not yet although I am mostly living in leggings and dresses for comfort.

Sleep?  The last few nights have been appalling and I've averaged around 5 hours maximum, I'm definitely blaming this "heatwave" we are having though.  Even pre-pregnancy I wouldn't have been able to sleep in this.

Best moment this week?  Getting to see our little Pip wriggling around on the scan.  Also last Friday I became an aunty to a beautiful little preemie.  My sister-in-law unexpectedly gave birth at 32 weeks.  I'll do a full post when things are settled and I've met the little guy but things are going well so far.

Movement?  I'm starting to feel a few more spontaneous movements, without having to sit and concentrate on them, but they're still very few and far between.  The scan confirmed I have an anterior placenta (which means it's at the front, between my stomach and baby) so it makes sense that I've not felt much so far.  They should continue to get stronger though.

Food cravings?  Nothing this week really, appetite has been a bit low with the heat so mainly just drinking lots of cold fluids and making sure I eat regularly. 

Food aversions?  Nothing.

Gender?   The general consensus of everyone who has seen the scan photo (it's only of the upper body) is that it's a girl but we've slipped into the habit of calling it a "he", which has led to a few people thinking we know something we don't.

Labour signs?  Definitely not.

Pregnancy symptoms?  Heartburn and tailbone pain, same as last week.  My boobs seem to have grown a bit again too.  

Belly button in or out?  In.

What I miss?  Always being cold!  I'm very aware that my body temperature has increased quite a lot since I've been pregnant and I've been finding myself wearing t-shirts in situations where previously I'd have had a jumper or cardigan on.  Needless to say, with it being summer and very hot this is getting more difficult.  Apparently I can't go to work naked so I'm going to have to find a solution...

What I am looking forward to?  Getting to meet my little nephew!  I'm not sure when it'll be yet but I can't wait all the same.

Upcoming appointments/scans?  I have an appointment with the Anaesthetist on 4th July to discuss my local anaesthetic/epidural concerns - I was told this would be at 32-24 weeks so it's come through a lot quicker than I was expecting but I'll be glad to get some reassurance.  I'm back at the midwife on 19th July and my next growth scan is 14th August.  

Weekly wisdom?  Always be prepared!  People keep telling us we are getting everything ready way too early but after little nephew's early appearance, I'm certain we're doing the right thing by being prepared.  (On a side note, my weekly wisdom section didn't get updated last week for some reason - I blame baby brain!!)

Milestones?  Having the anomaly scan and everything being normal!

Bump picture: 
 

21 weeks pregnant and Stormtroooper PJs - hopefully the little bump will properly pop soon!


Here's little Pip from our scan on Monday!  He/she was being very mischievous and kept putting his/her hands up and hiding - maybe camera shy?  Any guesses on gender?

Sunday, 18 June 2017

Father's Day!

Okay, so ALS is not quite a father yet but I still thought it'd be worth getting him a little something for father's day today.  Here is what I decided on:


The card was from Funky Pigeon so I got to personalise it and add the scan photo in, which was cute.  It also meant I could write my own message as the ones in the shops just weren't quite suited to what I wanted!

The book can be found here.  It's pretty cheap and a great novelty gift.  I partly wanted to get him something he could learn from but something that would keep his interest and this looks just right.  It's laid out as a military guidebook and isn't too wordy, so you don't feel overwhelmed.  It's a handy guidebook that'll fit in a small bag or large pocket for reference at any time.  I plan to read it as well so I'll post a proper review when I've finished it!

What did you get your dad or partner for father's day?  If you're a dad, what did you get from your partner/kids?

Wednesday, 14 June 2017

Pregnancy - 20 week update!

How far along?  20 weeks


How big is baby?  The size of a banana (or an axolotl) according to my app, around 25.6 cm and 300 g.  Baby hasn't actually grown 10 cm this week, but from 20 weeks they start measuring from head to toe instead of head to butt!

Total weight gain/loss?  I'm 56.9 kg today, another small increase but things are going in the right direction.  For the last few weeks I've been just under the advised "1lb per week" weight gain so I'm relatively happy with that.

Waist?  30 inches, a little bigger than 2 weeks ago.  Now I've hit the 20 week mark I will be measuring every week.

Stretchmarks?  No new ones :)

Maternity clothes?  Not yet - I still don't even look pregnant in anything that's not tight-fitting. 

Sleep?  I've not had enough this week due to a few unavoidable late nights but I feel alright.

Best moment this week?  We got our new cot yesterday and this one is undamaged and much better than the last one - the temptation to put it up is unreal, but we need to wait until we've had a radiator moved in the nursery.

Movement?  Still not much at all, although I do think Pip gave me a swift kick yesterday which made me stop what I was doing and concentrate, then he didn't move again.  (Note: since I typed this update earlier today, I've just been sat reading and felt a few quite strong movements, although again every time I stopped to focus on them they stopped.)

Food cravings?  Chocolate (I had some Dairy Milk at the weekend but now I want Galaxy).  Otherwise, just rich carbohydrate based foods - mac and cheese, jacket potatoes etc. 

Food aversions?  Nothing in particular any more - I think the aversions will probably stay awake now the morning sickness is mostly gone.

Gender?   Still no clue - we could find out at our scan on Monday but we're sticking to our guns.

Labour signs?  Definitely not.

Pregnancy symptoms?  Mostly just the heartburn and some pain in my tailbone - I've taken my exercise ball to work to swap out with my desk chair for half an hour at a time when it starts getting painful.  Also nesting - already!  All I want to do is be in the nursery 24/7 setting up furniture, sorting clothes out, shopping for more bits etc.

Belly button in or out?  In.

What I miss?  Having my mum around to talk about stuff with - I don't feel like I "need" her support as ALS is amazing, but it would be nice to be able to share this experience with her.  Unfortunately with her current mental state it's more like I already have a child to deal with - maybe she's just preparing me.  

What I am looking forward to?  Seeing little Pip again on Monday!  Plus we're starting to get the garden sorted ready for summer and getting the nursery ready.  

Upcoming appointments/scans?  I had my whooping cough vaccination this afternoon.  It's the 20 week scan on Monday (19th June) and we see the midwife again on 19th July.

Weekly wisdom?  Spend as much time as you can enjoying being a family of 2 for the last time.  We set aside Saturday night for date night - we played adventure golf and went out for dinner and drinks (non-alcoholic for me of course).  It was absolutely lovely and we appreciated it even more knowing that we won't get much chance to do things like that soon.

Milestones?  We've hit the halfway mark!  Not only am I now 20 weeks, I've known I've been pregnant for a whole 16 weeks and in another 16 weeks (unless I change my mind) I'll be finishing work so halfway there too.

Bump picture:

Well, people keep telling me I'm "tiny" for 20 weeks and I have to say I quite agree.  I'm happy that I'm "all baby" but I am quite looking forward to having the scan for reassurance that baby is growing okay.  The little movements are keeping me sane for now though.

Wednesday, 7 June 2017

19 week update

How far along?  19 weeks


How big is baby?  The size of a grapefruit (or a 4 toed hedgehog) according to my app, around 16 cm and 240 g.  That's a 25% weight gain this week!

Total weight gain/loss?  I'm 56.5 kg today - only a small increase but at least it's an increase.

Waist?  I'm only measuring my waist every fortnight at the moment.

Stretchmarks?  No new ones :)

Maternity clothes?  Still squishing myself into my normal clothes - some of my waistbands are starting to feel a little uncomfortable towards the end of the day but there's still a little room in them yet.

Sleep?  It's been relatively good - I've had a good few nights this week where I've been completely out of it.

Best moment this week?  Yesterday I was doing hip extensions in ALS' exercise class and felt baby make a proper movement, it didn't feel much like a kick so I probably flipped Pip upside down and he did a little roll.  It was a bit awkward because I really wanted to run over and tell him but obviously he was working so during one of the rest periods I just mentioned it to him.  It was so unexpected but such a wonderful feeling.

Movement?  Just the one big one yesterday and then little flutters when I lie and concentrate on it.

Food cravings?  Fizzy peach sweets!  They're so sweet I can only manage one or two though, which is probably a good thing.

Food aversions?  Nothing.  I've made an effort to eat really well this week - regular small meals and healthy snacks and I do feel good for it.

Gender?   I've unintentionally started referring to Pip as "him" in the last week or so and I really can't explain why - so maybe it's my body telling me there's a little boy in there.

Labour signs?  Definitely not.

Pregnancy symptoms?  Heartburn - all the time, every day!  It doesn't matter if I have small meals, avoid anything rich/acidic, don't lie down for a couple of hours after eating or anything else, the heartburn seems to find me.  It's far from unbearable though and I like having symptoms to reassure me that things are happening in there!

Belly button in or out?  In.

What I miss?  Being able to just have a chilled out day off work - today is my day off and I have to sent my cot back (because it arrived damaged), try to sort out my hoover which has packed up despite only being 2 months old, spend some time with my mother (despite the fact she posted an incredibly rude, hurtful Facebook status directed at me yesterday) because my grandparents made the mistake of telling her I was off today, ring the midwife because I still haven't heard anything from the hospital, go car shopping because ALS' car has been written off in an accident etc.  Every time I've had a day of work this is how it's been because for some reason everything around us keeps breaking and my mum seems to be not getting any better (all the medical services are dragging their feet in helping us).  Normally it wouldn't be an issue but I'm a little concerned about overdoing it and having too much stress whilst I'm pregnant.

What I am looking forward to?  Getting the nursery set up properly!  We painted it this weekend and were going to get the cot up on Monday evening, until we found out it was damaged.

Upcoming appointments/scans?  I have my whooping cough vaccination on 14th June, my 20 week scan on 19th June and see the midwife again on 19th July.

Weekly wisdom?  Spend as much time as you can enjoying being a family of 2 for the last time.  We set aside Saturday night for date night - we played adventure golf and went out for dinner and drinks (non-alcoholic for me of course).  It was absolutely lovely and we appreciated it even more knowing that we won't get much chance to do things like that soon.

Milestones?  Baby movements :D

Bump picture:

I've decided my bump looks completely different size/shape depending on what I'm wearing.  If I'm just in pants, with a lower waistband it's a nicely defined bump.  With my PJs pulled up a bit more like this I just look chunky haha!

Saturday, 3 June 2017

Fit Pregnancy!

As a powerlifter, with a chronic illness, who is now pregnant, fitness is something that I have given a LOT of though to recently.  Due to my EDS it has always been complicated for me to find an exercise regime but I found one which worked well and then pregnancy came along and made me need to re-think a few things.  So in this post I'm going to discuss what I've learned about exercising during pregnancy so far.

DISCLAIMER: I am not a trained doctor, midwife or fitness instructor.  All of the information I am about to share is from doing my own research on line, speaking to various professionals and a little bit of opinion as well.  ALWAYS consult a doctor before embarking on any sort of new exercise during pregnancy and discuss whether your current regime is suitable to continue.  Every pregnancy is different and if there are any concerns about the health of your baby, you may be advised to cease exercising by a medical professional.

Why do I need to exercise during pregnancy?

There are many reasons for keeping fit during pregnancy and here are just a few of them:


  • Studies have shown that women who are in good shape and used to exercising cope better with labour and generally have a shorter, easier labour - obviously this doesn't apply to everyone but it makes sense that being fit will help you along in labour.  Labour is somewhat like a marathon, it's physically and mentally draining and it's damn hard work.  If your body is used to being put through physical stress, it will find it easier (although it won't be a walk in the park) to deal with.
  • Pregnancy itself can cause all sorts of aches and pains but if you're in good shape your body is better equipped to deal with them - this speaks for itself and makes perfect sense.  If your body isn't used to any physical activity then it's going to find it a lot harder to cope carrying around an extra 25-30 lbs (the average weight gain in pregnancy) by the end.
  • Avoiding excessive weight gain - weight gain is not only healthy during pregnancy, it's also necessary.  However, it can be easy to gain weight excessively, especially if you are constantly craving rich, fatty foods.  Regular exercise can balance out that weight gain and help you to gain enough to sustain your baby without piling on extra pounds that will be hard to shed in the future.
  • Protecting your joints - during pregnancy your body releases a hormone called relaxin, which loosens everything in order to allow your body to expand to house your growing child and also to allow the baby to come out during labour.  However, this hormone can make your joints a little unstable and the best way to protect them is to ensure the muscles supporting them are strong enough to compensate for the laxity.  (EDS also causes joint laxity, which is how I got into strength training in the first place as I was advised to strengthen my muscles).
So, now you have a reason to exercise.  However, knowing what is and isn't safe during pregnancy can be a bit of a minefield.  Here are some suggested exercises (and some to avoid).

Walking
Walking is always a great exercise to start with, especially if you weren't active before your pregnancy.  You can build it up gradually and it's also an exercise that's easy to carry on once baby is born.  It has the added benefits of getting out in the fresh air, which is good for mental health.  

Swimming
Swimming is a highly recommended exercise for people with joint problems or chronic pain conditions as water is gentle on the body and it supports a lot of your weight.  Again, it's something that can be built up gradually if you're not used to it and is something you can continue right through to the end of pregnancy.  A lot of pools also offer aqua aerobics classes which are easily adaptable for a pregnant woman and some even offer "aquanatal" classes, specifically geared around pregnant ladies.  If swimming feels too much, just walking up and down the pool can be good exercise as the water provides resistance against your body.

Yoga
This one is great for relaxation and for keeping yourself supple during pregnancy.  However, there are quite a lot of yoga poses that stress the body in unsuitable ways for pregnancy so I would advise trying a "pregnancy yoga" class - you can find them in your local area through a quick internet search.  If you want to carry on going to your regular yoga class, just make sure to inform the instructor that you're pregnant and he/she can advise you on any positions that might be unsuitable and provide you with pregnancy-friendly alternatives.

Strength training
Free weights aren't generally advised during pregnancy (especially if it's not something you've done before) but the resistance machines in the gym can be a great way to build up some strength, or retain it if you're used to strength training.  For those of you who are used to doing free weight exercises such as squats or deadlifts, it's fine to carry on but drop the weight to a comfortable level, make sure you have someone spotting you and be aware that during pregnancy your balance may be a little off (especially as you get larger).

Exercise classes (aerobics, zumba, spinning etc.)
Most exercises classes are fine but it is suggested that you avoid jumping too much (although the research on this is unclear) so always make sure to tell your instructor and ask them to provide suitable alternatives to any exercises that may be considered unsafe.

Exercises to avoid
It's generally accepted that you should avoid any exercises where there is a risk of falling such as cycling (a stationery bike is fine), horse-riding, rock climbing or any of the more extreme sports.  Scuba diving is also a no-no, as the pressure on your body is bad for baby.  Abdominal exercises such as planking are considered okay but it's best to avoid things such as crunches or sit ups that pull directly on the abdominal muscles (to avoid diastasis recti/abdominal separation).

TOP TIPS

  • Always keep a bottle of water handy and make sure you stay well hydrated, even if you're only walking.
  • Be aware that your blood pressure can fluctuate so getting up too quickly from floor exercises may make you feel a little faint.
  • Make sure that any class instructor is aware that you are pregnant so they can advise you as to what to avoid and how to modify any exercises accordingly.
  • It is generally accepted that you can carry on any fitness regime you were doing before you were pregnant - but make sure to look at any dangers it poses and modify accordingly.
  • Do not take up any new, strenuous exercise during pregnancy without first consulting your midwife or doctor.
  • Take it easy - I'm not saying don't get good and sweaty, but pregnancy is not the time going for personal best deadlifts or trying to cut time of your 5k run!
  • Listen to your body.  If you feel particularly tired, have a day off.  If you start feeling light headed or sick during exercise then stop, take a break and have a drink before deciding whether to carry on.  There are no prizes for pushing yourself too hard.
  • As you get bigger, be aware of your bump and be aware that your balance may be a little off - be particularly cautious when doing anything that involves standing on one leg.
  • Consult your midwife or doctor if you are unsure about anything or if you have any unusual symptoms during exercise.
  • Most of all, HAVE FUN!

What exercise did you all do in pregnancy?  Were you active before and had to slow it down or did you take up something new?